I'm Loving it.

[Messatsu!]

A week ban because I changed my cbox name to something YOU didn't like?

Talk about being a real bitch.

Lets get this shit straightened out hoe.

What.

The.

Fuck.

is.

Your.

Problem?

[Axcel]

I glanced at c-box history and didn't see anything that warranted a ban, so what happened? I'm not going to make any assumptions cause chat history could have been deleted, but nothing I read should have caused a 7 day cbox ban.

[Hotaru]

It's been building for a few weeks where he has been pretty constantly antagonizing me in the cbox by calling me names. Today he got involved in a matter that had nothing to do with him, and tried to get involved, assumed I was the bad guy, and continued to joke about how i need to learn my 'place.'. I banned him for an hour, having had enough, and sent him a PM warning him to stop antagonizing me and crying to other people about how bad he thinks I am.

As soon as the hour long ban expired and he simply replied to my PM with size 10 "WORD", he picked up right where he left off and changed his cbox name as well as made posts referencing the PM i sent.

After repeated warnings from Naitome and myself, he STILL persisted to behave how we explicitly asked him not to. A week may have been harsh, but honestly, I'm sick of the attitude he has had about me. He has been asked through multiple venues to come to me if he has a problem. Instead, he insists on making a scene.

[Messatsu!]

You can't handle a little harmless name calling? the same name calling that goes on everyday in the box?And if you couldn't tell that I was joking for the most part, that's on you because if joking is antagonizing or name calling it, everyone pretty much does it to another eventually. A week ban over something like changing my name to some shit you didn't like again, is over doing it.

Unban me axcel, if you don't mind.

[vegapunk]

I left the cbox before any of this, so I can only offer an opinion, but I'll vouch that I got the feeling something was escalating when I left - which did involve Gene.

However, it seems like the blue team is getting a rough deal at the moment...as much as I would like to believe the message in the staff description that we are "the heart & soul of staff", I find it difficult to do so when I am issued meager amounts of respect and have my integrity questioned.

This isn't a bitch or moan, its just had to come out at some point..

[Hotaru]

It isnt about the namecalling.

It's about the blatant lack of respect you showed, and continue to show, for me and my position.

I asked you to stop. You continued. I told you what would happen. You ignored it. I came to you personally and told you to grow up. You laughed at it. Even in this complaint, you called me a "bitch" and a "hoe." Excuse me for not taking them as terms of endearment.

[Messatsu!]

All i did waas change my name, wtf was so bad about that. I didn't say shit to you after that PM now did i? I could've even replied to your pm with something far worse than what i sent. You were the one that said i was a bad writer, bad member, and bad staff. That's what i really responded to in the first place.

And I agree with vega the respect WE get is shit because truthfully I haven't gotten shit from you. Its why I only talk to genbu and Naitome is because they have respect, but even then I don't always go to them. Maybe calling you a hoe and a bitch wasn't a good idea, but hey, calling a bad writer (maybe I am) and a bad member after all the time i've been here? Nah, fuck you, i couldn't - WOULDN'T let that go.

[Naitome]

This topic is over. Further commenting on who was right or wrong will be summarily ignored. Your jobs are to work together, and you don't seem capable of doing that, so fix it. Immediately. Regardless of the 'rough deal' any of you feel you may be getting, I don't care about your personal emotional feelings on the subject, nor whether or not those feelings get hurt because you're called out on it.

Work. Do your work. That is what I care about. Do that, and your problems with upper-staff will disappear. Genbu, Hotaru, Addy, Kohana, or Myself can and will handle all issues of name-calling and cbox misconduct, as well as deal out appropriate punishment in that regard, if we feel it is necessary. Disagreeing with that judgment is fine, you're entitled to whatever opinions you may form, but no other member of staff will be 'undoing' that judgment because you disagree with it.

Do your jobs. That's all I want to see. If you're doing that, there's nothing to worry about. If upper staff tells you to step it up, step it up, or quit. Those are your options. But if you can't display a common level of respect for each other, then why you expect to receive such respect from anyone else, is absolutely ridiculous.

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